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Showing posts with label Ezel. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ezel. Show all posts

Friday, November 26, 2010

Ezel Fourth Birthday Part Two @ Home


Later at night, we bring her to Jusco to buy a birthday cake. She is happy that she gets to choose her own cake.

At about 11PM, Keng Choong and his girlfriend, Janice come to our house to celebrate her birthday. Ezel is so happy that this year her Kaw Fu and Janice Jie Jie are celebrating her birthday. Mummy did not come as she had her kidney dialysis in the afternoon which she needs rest after that.

Ezel Fourth Birthday Part One @ Neway Karaoke

Ken brings Ezel to 1 Utama Neway karaoke to celebrate her birthday since he wants to pick me up from work. Luckily, my manager allows me to take off early since I mentioned to him that today is my daughter birthday.



When I arrive at their karaoke room, Ezel is already finished eating. Ken says that she sang few songs - children songs. She is so happy because this is the first time she visits to karaoke.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Second Attempt for Sweden Beef Meatballs

Ken's portion
I make second attempt for Sweden beef meatballs tonight as we discovered a different brand of beef meatballs in hypermarket the other day.


Ezel's portion
Ken suggests me to fried it straight instead of boiling it first. Apart from the beef meatballs, I also fried some french fries which are Ken's and Ezel's favorite.
Close-up of Ezel's portion
I like greenery or some colors on my foods. Thus, I steamed some potatoes, carrots sticks, broccoli, cauliflower and french beans as side dishes. For the sauce, I tried different method this attempt but still fail to cook a thick sauce.
My portion

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Sweden Dinner - Beef Meatballs

Ken's portion
Tonight I make Sweden beef meatballs as dinner. It is frozen beef meatballs that I bought from the grocery store inside Tasik Heights compound. It can be treated as celebration on our move back dinner.

Ezel's portion
Apart from the beef meatballs, I also steamed some potatoes, carrots sticks, broccoli and french beans as side dishes. For the sauce, I try to mix the boiled beef meatballs' soup with some flour and milk. But I must admit that it has failed as it would not want to be thicken.

My portion
My portion for tomorrow lunch

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Furniture for Ezel's Room and Living Room

I taken half day leave as our furniture are scheduled to delivery by today afternoon.

At about 12+PM, the delivery man come knocking on our door to delivery the furniture. They deliver all the furniture except the dining table as they claim do not have stock. I put a remark at the delivery note stating that the dining table is not deliver and sign to confirm other furniture are delivered.

After the delivery man has left, we clean up the furniture as there are dust on them. Ezel is very happy as she gets the whole new set of her room furniture. Ken and I been guessing if the furniture back in Pelangi Utama make her do not want to sleep alone as most of them are in dark color. Thus, this time, we bought her whole new set of furniture which is white. Furthermore, we concluded that it is better for her to have a double bed instead of single bed as it is more convenience if she still do not want to sleep alone. Secondly, there is additional bed scape in case someone come to overnight.

Ezel is very happy to have the whole new set of her room furniture. I spread the new bedsheets for her as well the new curtain. She even got a new air conditioner. Hopefully will all these, she wants to sleep by her own.



For living room, we bought a set of sofa of three (3) and two (2) seats, a television cabinet, shoe cabinet as well dining table that is yet to deliver. All these furniture are bought from Cavenzi during its sale. The price is reasonable but quality is a bit out. Well, guess for the price you pay, you get almost these kind of qualities.

Saturday, August 14, 2010

Ezel's First Short Hair Cut

Ever since I done my soft/corn perm in early June 2010, Ezel has been nagging me that she wants to cut her hair too like me. Ken and I been persuading her that cutting her hair short will not look like a girl anymore and not beautiful and cannot tie her hair up. But yet, she still insists to cut her hair. I guess she just want to feel how it is to cut her hair.

Thus, today, I bring her to the saloon that I used to go in Slim River to cut her hair. She is pretty excited about it as she knows that she is about to cut her hair. The lady owner keeps asking her if she is sure to cut her hair short as she explains that once her hair is cut, there is no way to join back the cut hair. Ezel keep quiet for a while like she is thinking or digesting what the auntie says. Finally, she nod her head when I ask her if she really want to cut her hair.

After confirming that Ezel is sure to cut her hair, the lady owner asks her to sit on a high chair. Before the lady owner really cut her hair (with the scissor in position to cut), she asks Ezel again and Ezel shyly nod her head. Then, the lady owner starts her magic fingers to cut Ezel hair.

Flocks of Ezel hairs
Flock after flock of Ezel hairs are falling down the floor. She did not cry as I assumed perhaps she will after realizing what is happening. But, to my surprise, she did not cry at all. Finally, her hair is short! She seems satisfy with the outcome and keeps smiling shyly.
Posing with her new hair style

Another posing after bath
 We brings her back to her grandma house to take bath. She is so happy when her grandma praise her that she looks beautiful. But Ken says that she looks a bit chubby on the face.
Close-up

Monday, May 10, 2010

Improving.....

I was awake in middle of the night to grab my blanket and I realize that the room door is wide open. I asks Ken in the sleep if he keeps the door open. He said yes and I continued my sleep.

However, do not know what time, Ezel came crying and ask me to sleep with her. So, I brings her to her room and asks her to sleep on her bed while me sleep on the floor matted with her old small baby's mattress. She falls back asleep very fast and I went back to my room to continue my sleep.

Well, the situation is improving but it is really takes time to work thing out.

Ken said that he will take the outside side of the bed and asks me to sleep inside side of the bed tonight so that Ezel would know disturb me. Ken do not want Ezel disturb my sleep. What a nice and caring husband! *Muaks*

Ezel, please be a good girl tonight and sleep by your own.

Sunday, May 9, 2010

The Story Continues

It is time for Ezel to go to bed. She been in her room since dinner to watch her cartoon. From time to time, she will come out to the living room and tease us a bit. 

But when the time is getting late and her sleepiness is crawling to her mind, she knows and will ask for her milk. However, we refused to give her as she will ask again when she really go to bed later. After so much of nagging, finally I made the milk to her and ask her to go to bed alone while Ken and I stay in living room watching television.

Then, we decided to sleep as well. Since we moved our study tables back to our room and re-arrange the room earlier in the afternoon, there is no need to be in the living room. So, we tell Ezel that we will go to bed and she sleep in her bed. Ken switched off the lights in the living room. 

After few minutes in our room, Ezel come knocking on our room and seem wanted to cry. Ken brings her back to the room and tell her that she should sleep alone like other kids and promised her that she will get many toys if she sleep alone. After 20 minutes passed, Ken gave up and come out telling me that he wasted a lot of saliva to tell her. But she is yet to be asleep.

About five minutes later, Ezel come knocking again but this time we ignore her. She do not dare to open the door and keeps a low weeping outside the door. A few minutes gone and she still standing outside our room and her weeping goes louder. I think she is afraid of the dark surrounding.

Soon I opened the door, she cried out and said she wants light. Ken suggested to switch on the normal light and pat her to sleep. I did what Ken suggested and she is asleep in 10 minutes. I went back to the room to get my sleep as well.

The Beginning is Always the Hardest

Finally, the sky is bright. I wake up and found that Ken is not beside me. So, I went to Ezel's room and found him sleeping on the floor! I wake him up and took his place while he went back to our room to continue sleep.

Later, Ezel was awake and I make her a bottle of milk and switch on her favourite cartoon on the television in her room. Then, I went back to my own room to continue sleep. Occasionally, I will wake up and have a peek on Ezel because she did not come to our room to disturb us and there is a total silent. I peek on her as I afraid, touch wood, something happened to her. But, she stays in her room and watch her favourite cartoon.

I think the beginning of everything is always the hardest. Hope tonight gets better.

A Night Without Ezel

Ezel has been sleeping in her own room now. After few hours doing our own stuffs at the new space in the living room, Ken and I finally decided to go to bed as well.

Before asleep, Ken said that finally Ezel sleep on her own. As he speaks, suddenly, he said that he missed her even it is only few meters away! Ken said even now is only few meters away, he missed her so much. He said he felt that way because he been caring for her since she was born. 

Then, I said, "If one day when she grown up and get married, I think you will weep very badly". 

"I have the same feeling too", he said.

Not long into the chat, suddenly our room door opened and Ezel come in with a crying face! She keeps crying and I bet she is scare as she sees no one in her new room except herself. Then, I ask her to go pee and bring her back to her room and accompany her to sleep. She fell back to sleep after a moment and I move back to my own room to sleep as well.

Sleep Alone

Today, the whole afternoon, we been shifting our-so-called-study-room out to the living room so that we can move Ezel's bed from our room to there. We shifted our study tables (Ken's and mine) which occupied half the room. We leave the book racks on the other side of the wall as we concluded that the living room is not suitable to put all these stuffs. 

With that, Ezel got a new room of her own (not the whole room but third quarter of the room at least). We decided to train her to sleep alone as she is three and a half years old now. She been sleeping with us since she was a baby.

We moved her single bed and the television for her into the room. Then, her bucket of toys and playing stuffs that lies in the living room also moved into the room. Her two (2) small tricycles also been moved into the room which just nice to put all her stuffs. Her kiddy study table stay in the room. After all the arrangement, the third quarter space in the room officially becomes her cozy room and space. She is quite excited as usual as we told her earlier that she should sleep alone. We purposely buy a small dimmed light for her so that she would be less afraid sleeping alone (like what my parents do to me when I was small). 

When time to sleep, she seems a bit reluctant to sleep alone. Ken and I been pursuing her very hard to sleep by her own. First, we let her sleep alone while drinking her milk and watching her own cartoon in the room. Once she finished her milk, she started to make some attitudes by coming out to the living room and things like that. She is very sleepy at that moment but she keeps pushing herself awake due to the new environment. 

Then, I accompany her into the room and tell that her toys like teddy bear, rabbits, frog and etc are accompany her to sleep. I ask her to sleep with all the toys surrounding her. Then, I walk out to the living room but in less than five (5) minutes, she is out to the living room again. 

Since we know she is very sleepy, Ken suggested me to accompany her and pat her to sleep. So, I did and within 15 minutes, she is fast asleep. Then, I came out living the small dimmed light on.

Finally, Ezel to manage to sleep alone in her own room after a numerous in-and-out game.

Monday, January 4, 2010

Ezel First Day at Kindergarten

Today is Ezel first day at kindergarten back in Slim River. I purposely taken one (1) day leave to accompany her to kindergarten. I really do not want to miss her first day of school even this is not so official school yet like elementary school.

Ezel is very excited since yesterday as she knows she is going to school. I guess she been longing for it for the past year as she is always alone at home. She been longing to have some companions to play and talk with.

Ezel in her kindergarten uniform
She wakes up early and full of energy. She obeys every instructions we give her. After brushing her teeth, I dress her up on her kindergarten uniform and tie her 'mickey mouse' hair style. We go for breakfast first at the main road food center. Then, we head to the kindergarten which is nearby.

As it is first day of school, parents and children are everywhere. I go into the school with Ezel and there are few tables that look like registration counters. I approaches one (1) of the counters and sit down. The teacher asks for Ezel age and I inform her that she is four (4) years old. Upon hearing Ezel age, she asks me to go to another counter.

At this counter, the teacher again asks for her age and then asks me to sit down. After confirming her age, she informs me on the school fees and other payable fees which total up about RM150++. After getting the receipt and the insurance form, the teacher informs that she can go back now as today is only for registration.

When I tell Ezel that we need to go home, she is quite disappointing and so am I as we assume that there will be school today. Well, a least let the students sit down in their respective class and familiar with the environment but not in this kindergarten. Ezel starts to cry when I tell her to leave and by the time she is in the car, she has cry out aloud.

Ken is a bit angry as he also assume the same that Ezel will play for one (1) or two (2) hours here. Furthermore, her beloved daughter is crying which makes him more angry. In the end, we go back to his parents house and complaint while Ezel still crying. Then, we bring Ezel to Ken grandma house so that she can play with the baby that her third grand auntie take care.

Friday, December 18, 2009

Port Dickson-Malacca Short Trip

We take a short trip to Port Dickson and Malacca as Ken needs to deliver something back to his grandpa house in Port Dickson yesterday.

One of the rest house along the beach
We drive to Malacca using old road. Thus, we able to stop by Port Dickson, not exactly Port Dickson beaches but more of the rest houses of companies to sight seeing. Ezel is happy to see the ocean as she seldom get chances like this. She run along the beach happily even it is very sunny.
Ezel sitting on a rock

After spending some times there, we move on to Malacca. We go to the famous tourist spots such as the Porta de Santiago (also known as Fort A Famosa), Malacca river and nearby streets which mostly tourists visit spots. We are not used to the long distance of walking and we stop and rest for many times.

Ezel nagging to carry as she is tired
Then, we decided to go back to our car which is parked quite far away. Unfortunately, the sky looks like it is going to rain soon. We tried to walk quickly as possible but we are so tired that we stopped few rounds. Then, the rain pour down heavily and we have no choice to stay at the shop walkway to keep away from rain.
Waiting at the shop walkway due to rain

We end up having dinner at the corner noodle shop on the walkway we wait for the rain to stop. After the rain has stopped, we walk to our car and head to highway to come back to Kuala Lumpur.

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Ezel Third Birthday at Genting Highlands!

We decided to celebrate Ezel third birthday in Genting Highlands since Ken and Ezel are now in Slim River.

When we reach Resort Hotel, it is nearly 3PM and luckily it take only few minutes to check-in. We settled down and unpacked. I tried to get Ezel to sleep but she refused. Then, Ken and I decided to give her her birthday present which is a box a Cadbury Eclairs chocolate. Since I wrapped it nicely with a wrapping paper, she is so anxious to know what it is when trying to open the wrapping paper. 

Finally, she got it open and she is so happy when she recognize it is a box of chocolate. Actually, Ken and I are out of idea what to buy for her as she is still small. As Ken been complaining that she always ask him to go to a Chinese traditional multipurpose store to buy chocolate, we decided to buy her a box so that she would not ask go to there anymore.

Since Ezel do not want to sleep, I bath her and put on a nice dress and hair do for her. We decided to dine in at Coffee Terrance but by the time we go to the restaurant, it is not yet open for dinner. So we walk out to Genting Hotel front entrance as Ken needs to take a smoke.

Coincidentally, there is a train stop at the Genting Hotel front entrance and Ezel wants to ride on it. At first, I says that we only take photos on it and she agreed. However, later Ken decided to give her to ride on it since it is her birthday and we also need to wait for the restaurant to open for dinner. It is costly at RM5 per person! We take a ride around Genting Highlands on the train. It is not time yet when we departed the train. Thus, we linger for a while at Genting Hotel and take some photos of Ezel with the Christmas decoration as well as the signature decoration of Genting Hotel lobby, the elephant.



We go into Coffee Terrance and since it is just open, there are still many of foods around including the cheese cakes which usually do not refill anymore after it is finish. I quickly grab few pieces to make up a small square so that it looks like a cake for Ezel. After half an hour into eating, Ezel keeps asking if she could eat the cake. 

I bring out the candles that I bought earlier and put on three (3) candles onto the cakes. I lit the candles and sing her birthday song. She is so happy and keeps smiling seeing the candles in front of her. I ask her to blow the candles after I finished the birthday song. But her breath is so small that she could not blow and I have to help her. After taken out the candles and she begin to take the cakes, she keeps nagging for another round of candles blowing. In the end, she blows out three (3) times!

Sunday, November 1, 2009

November 2009 Finally Arrive!

Gosh! Finally November is here!

Why I am so excited about it? It is because of three (3) things below :
1) Ken's birthday on 18 November
2) Ezel's third birthday on 26 November
3) Twilight Saga : New Moon premiere on 20 November (not sure about Malaysia actual screening date yet)

In dedication to Twilight Saga : New Moon premiere and addication to it, I  decided to make my own desktop calendar using New Moon poster. I usually make my own desktop calendar theme using Snoopy character because I like Snoopy. Secondly, I am unable to find much the design I really wanted. Thus, I created and design my own.

However, this month, November, I decided to change a bit. Instead of using Snoopy, I uses New Moon poster! Here is the outcome and feel free to download if you want. Sharing is caring.....

My own made desktop calendar with Twilight Saga : New Moon theme
   
This is how my own made Twilight Saga : New Moon theme wallpaper looks like on my desktop

Monday, August 24, 2009

Dance Indeed Can Be a Teaching Tool - Inspired by Love N Dancing

My continual question in my previous post, "Can Dancing be a Teaching Tool?" has been answered in Love N Dancing movie which I watched last night.

The Synopsis
The movie is about a deaf dancing teacher, Jake Mitchell, who was in past is a twice World Swing Dance Championship. He gave up dancing about seven (7) years ago due to the unfaithful relationship his partner done to him. He then become a dance teacher as well as motivational speaker who travel around the country to speak to the student on his disability that did not stop him of being a dancer once. On the other hand, Jessica Donovan is a English teacher for disinterested, upper class middle school kids who has a dreams of Broadway when she was a young dancer. Her life is boring as she had a fiance, Kent who is work-a-holic, who she claims that he is having an affair with his work and cares more about making money rather than making her happy. Both Jake and Jessica met a school assembly whereby Jessica is attracted to him due to his dance performance with his former partner, Corinne. Jessica enrolled herself and Kent into Jake's private class for their wedding. As Kent is more concern about making money, he did not turn up of any of the classes leaving Jessica alone. Both Jake and Jessica connection gets better and Jake have the feeling of competing again. Jake asks Jessica if she would like to be his partner and Jessica agrees. Both of them train hard and Jessica finally realize that dancing actually make her happy and she groomed well. She looks more beautiful, confident and elegant! Finally, she broke up with Kent. Both Jake and herself finally got together when Jake expressed his love for her before the start of the competition.

From the movie, my question is well answered and proven. As mentioned in the previous post, "Can Dancing be a Teaching Tool?", a guy can learn how to touch a girl in a respectable way. While in Love 'N Dancing, a gal can learn how to be beautiful, confident, elegant and be respectful from the way they walk, talk and touch. All these can be learned through dancing.

Dance is indeed can be a teaching tool not to mention the arts and history behinds it. Every dance has it arts value, for example, the Flamenco dance originate from Spanish is to express deep feelings and show-off the dancer spirit. The dance helps people to express themselves in another way that we normally does.

I really need and like to enrol Ezel to dance classes when she is older as she likes to dance. I really hopes that she can learn something from her favourite activity. I passed my time to do such. Thus, I hope I can do something for Ezel's benefits and goods.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Happy Mother's Day

 First of all, Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers!

Ezel is growing older now but she still do not know what the purpose of today or know what day is today. However, she seems to know how to behave herself and did not make me angry much at least.

I keeps teaching her to say "Happy Mother's Day" but instead she always speak out "Happy Birthday" which she already knew. *sigh*

Hopefully by next year, she is able to wish me Happy Mother's Day.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Blue Girl


Today Ezel is blue girl - wearing blue shirt, blue pant and blue sandals.

She really looks nice in blue!

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Happy Second Birthday, Ezel!

Happy Birthday, Ezel! You are two (2) years old now!

I feel very guilty this year as I am not able to celebrate Ezel birthday together with her as she is at Slim River with Ken. She do not even get a piece of cake. No one sings her birthday song. I feel very sorry for her.

I called Ken once I reached home. Ezel is with him. I sang her birthday song but she did not make a sound or sing with me. I think she been wondering what song am I singing to her. She just, as usual, mumbling what crossed her mind at that moment.

Whenever her birthday is near, I would get flashback of memories during my labour and delivery of her. I can remember so well on the time I gave birth to her and every moments and things that happend during and after her birth. Is this so called the mother instinct?

Anyway, happy birthday, darling! Go up in good health and be a smart girl!

Mummy and Daddy love you so much! *muaks*

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Can Dancing be a Teaching Tool?

I watched this movie called "Take the Lead" on 8TV few hours ago. It is about dancing and how the lead character in the movie, Pierre Dulaine teaches a bunch of detention students to dance.

The movie is based on a true story. So, I googled up to find out more on this movie as it is based on true story. I also would like to know more as to why Pierre Dulaine uses dancing as a teaching technique. On the other hand, I am also curious about the explaination he made to the parents that how dancing can prevent a girl from getting pregnant and how a guy know how to touch a girl in respectable way.

The Movie Synopsis - taken from New Line Cinema website
Take the Lead is an inspirational drama based on the life of Pierre Dulaine, a Manhattan dance teacher and competitor who volunteers his time to teach ballroom dancing to a diverse group of New York inner-city high school students serving detention. The students are initially skeptical of Dulaine, especially when they learn what he’s there to teach them, but his unwavering commitment and dedication slowly inspire them to embrace his program. In fact, they even take it one step further and combine Dulaine’s classical dance with their unique hip-hop style and music to create a high-energy, unique fusion. As Dulaine becomes a mentor to his students, many of whom haven’t had much to strive towards in their lives, he inspires them to hone their skills for a prestigious city ballroom competition, and, in return, they share with each other valuable lessons about pride, respect and honor.

Then, I read from Wikipedia that Pierre Dulaine actually developed an educational technique known as The Dulaine Method: Changing Lives Through Dance. It is something like the Montessori method and the Suzuki method but Dulaine incorporated a different approach and philosophy.

The Dulaine Method: Changing Lives Through Dance - taken from Wikipedia
Over the past century, there have been numerous attempts to develop educational techniques that help children acquire the skills they need to become successful adults. The Montessori method and the Suzuki method are two of the most thorough, and successful, of those efforts.

What makes these methods so successful is that they combine a clear and compelling philosophy, rigorous and systematic training for those adults who will instruct the children, a program design that inherently coincides with the developmental needs of the children to be trained, and the ability to replicate the program on a large scale.

The Montessori method, with a philosophy grounded in guiding a child’s inner self to perfection, is completely focused on the emerging developmental needs of the child informing the Teacher about when to introduce certain learning experiences. The Suzuki method functions similarly: with a philosophical goal of bringing beauty to the spirits of young children, it builds on the essential developmental drive within young children for language acquisition.

Both the Montessori and Suzuki methods require extensive and rigorous training for their teachers. And both methods are indeed being replicated on a large scale.

Dancing Classrooms also combines a clear and compelling philosophy with a rigorous and systematic adult training model that dramatically coincides with the developmental need within 10-11 year old children to reinforce their social skills just prior to the onset of puberty. And Dancing Classrooms is now being replicated throughout the US and Canada with requests from several other international sites.

As with the Montessori and Suzuki programs, at the heart of Dancing Classrooms is a method – the Dulaine Method.

The Dulaine Method philosophy
Respect & Compassion: At the very core of the Dulaine Method philosophy is the essential respect that goes into being a Lady and being a Gentleman. In a time when we bemoan the loss of civil discourse and our society seems to become coarser by the day, Dancing Classrooms is a program that demands that the children not only treat others with respect but also encourages the children to respect themselves.


Coupled with respect is compassion. Perhaps it is Pierre’s own childhood that predisposes him to walk into a classroom full of children who struggle to believe in themselves, open his arms and heart to them, and then guide them gently along a journey that leads these young people to joy and accomplishment.

Respect and compassion are the foundational elements of the Dulaine Method. Unfortunately, very few adults know how to genuinely treat children with respect. And even fewer adults seem to remember what it was like being a child.

Being Present: Probably the most difficult skill for any teacher to learn is the ability to be completely in the moment when they are teaching. Children in particular are extremely aware of when the adult in charge (parent, teacher, coach) is not really there; and when a child senses that distance, woe be unto that adult.

Pierre’s ability to “be here now” enables him to observe every subtle nuance of student, and group, behavior. He can see when a child is nervous, not paying attention, when the group is becoming antsy and he can respond to those issues immediately, thus keeping the classroom experience flowing. Being present also allows Pierre to express his own positive emotions towards the children at precisely the moment the children need that affirmation.

Creating a Safe Place: Asking children to take the extraordinary risk of embarrassing themselves in front of their peers is precisely what Dancing Classrooms does. And the only reason that the children are willing to take this risk is because Pierre has perfected a way to make that experience safe.

A Dancing Classrooms class is a place in which everyone is equal: the students, the Teaching Artist, and the elementary school staff that are participating. In modern jargon we call this creating a therapeutic milieu, an environment so different from these children’s normal daily environment that simply being in that room and being part of that collective group experience changes that child.

Command & Control: Clearly, if you are going to move 25 children through twenty 45 minute classes and have them successfully learn seven dances, you need order and discipline. Pierre is in command of the class from the moment he begins until the moment the children leave the room.

An essential part of the Dulaine Method is developing the craft of managing the Group. When teachers are being taught how to work with children their training is invariably focused on individual child development. Rarely, if ever, are student teachers taught about group dynamics and how to manage a group of children. In many ways it is Pierre’s innate understanding of how to use the Group to help the Individual that is the glue that holds the program together. The ability to remain in absolute control of the Group while nurturing the children is one of Pierre’s greatest skills.

Language: Body & Verbal Language, both body and verbal, are the great connectors in Dancing Classrooms. Pierre’s entire physical affect is one of openness, warmth, and genuine affection for the children. His verbal repertoire is a consistent barrage of positive comments. There is no denying that when Pierre combines his body and verbal language he is a force the children simply cannot resist.

Humor & Joy: And last, but by no means least, Pierre brings humor and joy to the teaching experience. Humor is perhaps the most difficult, yet powerful teaching tool for a teacher to master. Gentle humor can help a shy child become less self-conscious; humor with that same child handled poorly can make him retreat and never come back out. As clichéd as it sounds, Pierre allows his inner child to fully emerge when he is teaching. He is playful, he is present, and the children can sense that he is just plain happy to be with them. "He also has this little habit of playfully slapping the students at Gateway Academy with his tie.

Being in such a safe place, where the boundaries are clear, the teacher is fully present, where respect and compassion reign – these are the elements that bring joy into the lives of the Dancing Classrooms children. And, as one Teaching Artist states:

"Dancing Classrooms is not about teaching ballroom dancing. The dance is a tool for getting the children to break down social barriers, learn about honor and respect, treat others carefully, improve self-confidence, communicate and cooperate, and accept others even if they are different."

After reading the above, I thinked of Ezel as she likes to dance. It would be great if she able to learn all the above skills mentioned thru her beloved activity, dance. I wonder if Malaysia have this Dancing Classroom.